.Tuesday, December 22, 2009 ' 2:35 AM Y
aku ade something nak share.
aku tk paham actually.
bile kawan complain about their love life or marriage life at us..
what actually they want?
dorang nk kite dengar or advice?
but then, bile dorang nk some advice from us, bile kite da kasi advice
dorang tkle terima.
okie let me give some example.
"aku stress siak dgn laki aku.. keje satu ari suntuk, duit satu sen pon tk nmpk."
okie den bile aku kasi pendapat aku la kan..
"ala, sabar la.. biar susah skrg. belom rezki korang agaknye."
den dia jawab
"mmg la belom rezki aku, tapi anak2 aku nk makan ape siaa nnti?"
okie i dun understand dis part.
at the first place why u choose to married at the young age..
who make the decision? urself kan? den tanggung la kau peh risk
jgn nk complain.
sape yg gatal nk buat anak? klau takot anak tk makan den jgn buat anak la.
haiz~
its true okie.. at first i got that feeling too.
but then, we i got some advice from some people than i know wad is wrong.
ur husband is working for the family. u as a housewife at home do ur own financial planning la..
laki kau dapat gaji jgn pikir kau nye shopping je.. pikir dulu la barang anak2 kau.
klau ade belen baru pikir barang kau pulak. nnti bile tk cukup.. semua nk salah kan laki.
dah bagus tu laki keje. abeh tkkan nk abes kn duit laki je. kdg2 pon nk kene amik hati laki jgk beli brg dia jgk.. dia keje penat2 abeh at last dia tk dpt ape dia nk.. semua abes kn kt anak2 & bini.
mcm mane laki tk carik lain. lol!
okiela. sorry klau sape2 yg terase..
my marriage life not even perfect oso.
but dun expect someone advice when u dunwan to listen la..
when we gave u advice we oso dun expect u to follow or listen.
we want u to think wad is rite or wrong.
kata kawan.. kawan mane nk tgk kawan cerai berai kan..
semua org tanak..
tapi klau da tkde jodoh nk buat mcm mane.. =)
and please la. aku benci klau org ckp.. aku kawin dulu, aku cerai dulu.. tapi aku tgk kau msh
kekal dgn laki kau.
wahlau.. kirekn kau expect aku pon cerai la nie?
selisih malaikat 44.
klau bole aku nk perkahwinan aku ni kekal sampai ke akhir hayat.
amin..
klau korang jeles tgk kebahagiaan org lain, sape srh kau cerai..
every problem can solve it slowly..
okiela tu je aku nk relate kt blog.. =)
